This is why privilege checking is so fucking annoying:

afinch would like me to know my drabble is OFFENSIVE AND ERASES THE GLBQT EXPERIENCE because same-sex daemons don't work that way!

Except the drabble in no way says that Sam is gay, just that Sam is visibly different in a way he can't hide and Josh doesn't notice or care.

Shit like this is why I am basically tired and done with fandom.